Author Archives: Paula

4 Ways to Stay Married 43 Years

I wrote a book filled with advice about how to have a great and lasting marriage. It’s a pretty good book, and if you don’t own it, you should click here and buy it right now. But let’s be honest, … Continue reading

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How to Get a Guy to Commit

Interesting take on relationships and habits by our friend Charlie Duhigg, author of the bestselling Power of Habit. Women turn to bad habits when they’re stressed, men when they see a line of cocaine. Obviously! For women, exposure to stress-related … Continue reading

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My Husband and I Made This Together

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The World’s Best Wife

My friend Jessie Knadler is really the best wife in the world. Her memoir, Rurally Screwed, just came out, and I highly recommend it. You might learn to be a great wife, too. She’s married to a guy named Jake. Jake … Continue reading

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What’s Going on Here?

Thought you were going to Spousonomics.com? Don’t worry, you’ve come to the right place. The paperback edition of our book–out June 12!–simply has a new name. And a new look. And new and improved features. We’ll still be talking about … Continue reading

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Here’s to Going to Bed Angry

Jenny and I have been pushing this advice for years. Some people think we’re nuts. But we know we’re right. Why stay up late making each other more miserable when you can get a good night’s sleep and probably feel … Continue reading

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Five Years In

Happy anniversary, bubba!

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“Working from Home”

At Roots Cafe in Brooklyn.

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10 Things You Can Cook in Your Dishwasher

Me again. I know, it’s been a while. But let’s not dwell on the past. Since I last posted, I got a new job, had a new baby and moved into a new house. Do you see a trend? Next … Continue reading

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Babble’s Top 50 Parenting Books

It’s funny, we didn’t think of Spousonomics as a parenting book when we first started writing it. But so many of the couples we interviewed had kids, and so many of their marital issues were intertwined with their roles as … Continue reading

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